Friday night was the unofficial beginning to the football season. Kevin and I found ourselves on the bleachers watching our son take the field for the first time this season. It was just a scrimmage, but scrimmages are important as they give the players an opportunity to get a feel for how everything comes together after a summer of conditioning and practicing.
In these last waning days of summer I am feeling what I feel every year at this time…a little melancholy. As we walked out of the stadium at the end of the evening, I realized we were in our own scrimmage as I was suddenly getting a feel for what our new season would feel like after a summer of easy living and lots of family time.
I felt intensely appreciative for many recent simple moments ~
- Like the shopping trip earlier that day, Zach, Erin and Courtney and I had spent five hours together. (Kyler asked to be excused from this endless traipsing from store to store). It was wonderful. I don’t have the three of them alone very often and it was good for us to have this time. Really good.
- I also felt grateful for my college daughter who napped with me on the couch that afternoon. This physical closeness doesn’t happen quite as often now that she is nineteen (I can’t exactly rock her anymore), and she doesn’t even live at home nine months out of the year.
- We had just spent a week with my niece and nephew and I felt joy at the opportunity to deepen our bonds, and a little sadness as I realized much distance was once again between us.
- A summer in which Kyler experienced many steps forward made my heart hopeful for his upcoming season as well as grateful for his current place.
- Knowing my baby girl was starting high school made my heart almost skip a beat. I can still see her two year old self twirling around in dress up clothes and beaming at me as she smiles….which was (and still is) all the time.
- I was keenly aware that with Zach heading into his junior year, I have two years left with him at home…and time seems to fly these days. So this created a lump in my throat and possibly a glassy residue in my eyes.
I will be fine. I remind myself. This happens every year. This new season will bring new plays for our team, and everyone will get comfortable in their new positions, including me. But for today, I will remember that all of these feelings are just a part of the process for me each year, so its OK to feel a little sad right now.